Saturday, 3 December 2016

GOODBYE MY OLD FRIEND...

Have you ever lost a treasured animal friend? Cathy writes about the recent death of her beloved lurcher Kelpie...


Cathy says:
The first time I met Kelpie, she was twelve weeks old. She'd been born in rescue kennels, her mother found abandoned on the streets of Glasgow. Kelpie had already been rehomed twice and brought back to the kennels twice by the time I met her... she was an anxious, nervous dog and had a habit of shredding things when she was upset, but really? Brought back to the kennels TWICE before she was even twelve weeks old? She jumped up at me, scratched my lip and made it bleed, but I could see the hope and panic in her eyes. She came home with me that day.

Kelpie fitted into our family easily. Our elderly cat made it clear he was the boss, and she quickly sussed that the pet rabbits were family too. My kids, aged eight and nine, loved her on sight, and my son even managed to forgive her when she ate his entire copy of LORD OF THE RINGS. My daughter and I took her to dog training classes, where she was the worst in the class - but she was brilliant at recall, because she always wanted to be with me, and after ten weeks she was given a certificate to say she had passed. (I think they were just being kind!) My daughter did dance every weekend, and while she was at lessons Kelpie and I walked for hours on Ayr beach - Kelpie chased the seagulls and never quite worked out why she couldn't catch them. She still hated being left, and once when I had to rush a poorly daughter into the toilets at the supermarket after a dance class, we returned ten minutes later to find Kelpie had torn up the back seat of the car. Oops!

Kelpie was a loner dog by nature, but after my dad died in 2007 we adopted his rescue greyhound, Daisy. Later, we found ourselves fostering a rescue lurcher, Finn, who ended up staying too. By then, our old cat had died and Kelpie was also putting up with three tough cats and several more rabbits. As long as she had us, she didn't care. She came on holiday with us to Ireland and the Lakes, and we discovered that she hated camping, loved camper vans and adored the tepee we bought after my first book DIZZY was published. In fact, the character of Leggit in DIZZY and LUCKY STAR was based very firmly on her! Kelpie often appeared in Puffin publicity shots and photo shoots, though attempts to dress her up as a festival dog always failed - if I tried to put a bandana round her neck, she'd just eat it. (If you spotted the reindeer antlers in the pic above, know that they stayed on her head for roughly three seconds...)

The problem is, dogs don't live as long as we do. By the time we moved from Galloway to Merseyside, Kelpie was slowing down. I gave her supplements to help her joints and runs in the park with Finn kept her young, but by the summer of 2016 I knew she was struggling, getting forgetful, and needing painkillers for her achey hips. Her heart was weak too... my lovely dog friend was sixteen and getting old. When my mum died this October, the whole world seemed to slow. We carried on, but every day felt like an ordeal, and in the midst of all this I could see Kelpie starting to fade. Still, every day she liked to run in the park. One day, we commented on how well she was running. She circled the park, chasing Finn who was in turn chasing squirrels. She followed him up a little hill and vanished out of sight, and when Finn came back Kelpie didn't. I found her fallen at the foot of the hill, unable to stand and screaming when we tried to lift her. Liam ran home to fetch my son and I sat beside her in the morning mist, telling her she would soon be flying high, catching the seagulls and squirrels she'd never managed to catch in life. We lifted her onto my parka and into a wheelbarrow (she was a big dog, a deerhound cross) and we took her back to the house and on to the vet, who told us it was time to let her go. I held her, stroked her, cried into her fur as she slipped away.

Kelpie was a very special dog to me, a soul sister. Her nervy, enthusiastic, sometimes grumpy and dishevelled persona was the dog equivalent of me, and I miss her just as keenly as if she had been human. If there is an afterlife, I hope she'll be there, waiting for me, running faster than the wind through the clouds to catch imaginary seagulls. I will never forget her.

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7 comments:

  1. That is such a beautiful and very heart-touching story. I love the story of Kelpie's life, it reminds you to live and to love it. Cathy, I hope your dog enjoys catching sea-gulls. Such a lovely story. :-))

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  2. I lost my cat, Liffey, when I was 5. I used to always run home from school (I lived really close to it) but one time I came back - and no Liffey! He had died on my mum's lap ='( . I'm 12 now and still miss him loads.

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  3. This is such a beautiful tribute to your wonderful girl. They take our hearts, our lovely pets, and make them their own. I still miss my darling Pollydog, who came into my life as my dad had just died and my marriage was breaking up, and who quietly kept me company until I started a new life. xxx

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  4. Beautiful, I bet she was a fabulous dog! I had a guinea pig once called Fudge. He died when he was about 3 and I miss him like crazy. I was only about 8 at the time and it hurt a lot but you soon move on. I think about him everyday and we buried him in the backyard.

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  5. Oh Cathy, I feel your pain! We had a Murphy who sounds so much like your Kelpie - he once ate the entire insides of my husbands jeep - his WORK jeep, it didn't even belong to us. Yet a bright, more loyal and loving dog you couldnt' have wished for. He was a brother to my daughter before she had a brother and when he went, he left a huge hole - it's never been filled, not for me, but especially not for my daughter who misses him so much, even know, almost ten years later. I hope your hearts heal even as the footprint Kelpie left stays xxx

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  6. Oh what a shame. That's terrible. But I'm sure everyone you have lost have lived a brilliant life and hopefully lived it to their fullest. I remembered Kelpie from a Summer Sleepover Session video a couple years back and she seemed so calm and lovely,just like you.�� I give my condolences.��

    #sweetreats xx www.bakingboutiquebirds.blogspot.co.uk

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  7. Hi Cathy,
    Everyone's experiences are different... Yours is heart breaking. I have never actually had a pet but every time I see an owner walking their dog, or feeding their cat, they have the same expression on their face - one which portrays happiness and delight. I couldn't take my eyes off Kelpie's picture, she looks so beautiful and calm; just like you! I have never seen you, but I hope I will some time. I imagine you as a lively and jolly person, who NOBODY can hate! (: I am so sorry for your loss... losing your mother and Kelpie... I can make out how you feel...
    Wherever Kelpie is, I hope that she is having fun and catching all the squirrels she once couldn't. They both ( your mother and Kelpie ) will always stay in your heart no matter what! I hope you feel better, for I know, ( as it is said in 'Summer's Dream' ) that you are not a quitter. Anyone can make that out! Please continue writing and one day or the other, the scar caused by Kelpie's loss will heal and you will be left with happy memories xxx

    I would love it if you could reply xxx

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